Tools
For Love Intelligence
Start here!
Learn Your Love Intelligence Code
Learning your unique Love Intelligence Code is the first step toward happier and healthier relationships. Once you have your code, the resources below will help you deepen your Love Intelligence.
Books
Relationship Medicine Guided Journal
Shamanie Thompson
A guided course to transform your most important relationships in 3 months using MindBody Relationship Intelligence and connecting the dots between what happens to your heart and what happens to your health.
The Twelve Ways of Love: Ancient Secrets of Loving Relationships
Dr. Denny Thompson
In his original book on Love Intelligence, Dr. Thompson skillfully connects our modern understanding of the neurobiology of love with ancient wisdom teachings that support self-understanding and healthy relationships.
The Yoga of Relationships and the Twelve Ways of Love
Dr. Denny Thompson
Dr. Thompson builds on his work with Love Intelligence, teaching us to understand the state of our relationships, their purpose, and how to function successfully within them.
Relationship Medicine: The Purpose of Love is to Heal
Dr. Denny Thompson
Gain an in-depth understanding of the physiological connections between what happens in our relationships and what happens to our health.
1-1 Consulting
Join Shamanie to uplevel your relationships with 6 weekly private consulting sessions. We’ll follow the Relationship Medicine Curriculum to:
- Enhance your understanding of self and others.
- Reignite your partnership and relationships.
- Support your parenting and connection.
- Improve your physical and mental health by healing the relationships in your life.
Workshops
Relationship Medicine Workshop
Join Dr. Shamanie and a supportive group of relationship explorers for a deep dive into Love Intelligence. You’ll better understand your and your partner’s true needs in relationship, and gain the skills you need to communicate deeply and nurture one another. As you progress, you’ll learn how to heal past wounds and rekindle loving relationships. We’ll also work with Relationship Medicine principles and Mind Body Relationship Medicine to cultivate healing states and gain insight into the connection between your relationships and chronic disease.
The Relationship Medicine Workshop is offered as a 5-week online session, or as a weekend intensive, where we cover all the topics below in a powerful live experience.
Weekly Schedule & Topics Covered
- Backstory and introduction to Relationship Medicine and its principles
- Assessing your current relationship intelligence level and your partner’s (now, 1 month, 3 months)
- Foundations & The 12 Ways of Love and Love Intelligence Codes
- Understanding your partner’s needs and the role of Interdependence
- Communication strategies for expressing your needs and applying Mind Body Relationship Intelligence
- My Love Intelligence Code reviewed and written down
- My partner’s Love Intelligence Code reviewed and written down
- My Love Intelligence Code Feelings and Position Placement
- Relationship Sadhana Review of Relationship
- Medicine Workbook exercises
- How our mind and body are ONE
- Making the association between the reaction to relationships and chronic disease
- Observe the effects of relationship stress on the body’s organ systems
- Assessing your own actions and behaviors in relationships, looking at oneself, no blame zone
- Mind Body solutions to cultivate healing states
- Applying emotional intelligence to relationships
- Review of Relationship Medicine Principles
- Facing our part: How do we show up?
- Understanding your relationships patterns and tendencies
- Unhealthy communication: Reverse Invoicing
- 30-Day Love Challenge Identify unmet needs and woundings
- Questioning your stressful thoughts: The Work
- Strategies for continuing personal and relationship growth
- Healing past wounds and traumas
- Developing forgiveness and compassion
- Strategies for rebuilding and rekindling your relationship
- Final review of Relationship Medicine Workbook exercises
- Review of Relationship Medicine Principles
- Self love checklist
- Putting love into action
- Find out the Love Intelligence Code of family & friends
Register now
Relationship Medicine 6-week Online Series
Thursdays, April 2 – May 7, 2026 at 6:30-8:30PM
Relationship Medicine Workshop LIVE
February 21-22, 2025
Friday: 5:30pm-8:30pm
Saturday: 10:00am-5:00pm
Willowbridge Healing Center
4 Enterprise Ave NE #1
Isanti, MN 55040
Contact Willowbridge to Sign Up: (763) 552-6161
Relationship Medicine Workshop One Day
March 1, 2025
Saturday: 9:00am-5:00pm
The Lash Lounge and Rejuv Room
168 Lake St N #1,
Forest Lake, MN 55025
Retreats
Mind Body Relationship Experience 3-Day Healing Retreat
October 19, 20, 21 — Sedona, Arizona
November 9, 10, 11 — Steamboat Springs, Colorado
March dates coming soon — Sedona, Arizona
Sign up to be notified about next retreat dates and details
NURTURING • HEALING - INSIGHT • CONNECTION • GROWTH
Modern research is discovering what Ancient Wisdom has always known. The Mind Body Relationship Experience 3-day Healing Retreat is designed to help individuals and couples deepen their connection and heal their minds and bodies using Mind Body Relationship Intelligence.
Included Mind Body Therapies:
- Relationship Medicine Workshop
- Love Intelligence Code Reports for you and your partner
- Guided Meditation
- Yoga
- Acupuncture
- Detox Supplementation
- Community Circle Time and Connection
- Infrared Sauna
- IV Nutrient Therapies
- Ozone
- Organic Juicing
- Organic Whole Gourmet Meals
- Ayurvedic Panchakarma Detoxification Massage
- Music and Camaraderie
Weekly Schedule & Topics Covered
Health Intake, Functional Medicine Testing if desired, Detox Supplements
- 10:00am – 11:00am: Arrival and Check-in
- 11:00am – 12:00pm: Welcome Ceremony and Introductions
- 12:00pm – 1:00pm: Organic Gourmet Lunch
- 1:00pm – 2:00pm: Mind Body Relationship Intelligence Group work
- 2:00pm – 5:00pm: Love Intelligence Code revealed for yourself and partner
- 5:00pm – 6:00pm: Free Time
- 6:00pm – 7:00pm: Organic Gourmet Dinner
- 7:00pm – 8:00pm: Evening Activity (e.g., bonfire, music, connecting)
- 7:00am – 8:00am: Guided Meditation
- 8:00am – 9:00am: Yoga
- 9:00am – 10:00am: Organic Gourmet Breakfast with Fresh Pressed Juice
- 10:00am – 12:00pm: Mind Body Relationship Intelligence group work
- 12:00pm – 1:00pm: Organic Gourmet Lunch
- 1:00pm – 3:00pm: Massage and Acupuncture
- 3:00pm – 4:00pm: IV Vitamin Therapy
- 4:00pm – 6:00pm: Free Time
- 6:00pm – 7:00pm: Organic Gourmet Dinner
- 7:00pm – 8:00pm: Evening Activity (e.g., dance, music, connecting)
- 7:00am – 8:00am: Guided Meditation
- 8:00am – 9:00am: Yoga
- 9:00am – 10:00am: Organic Gourmet Breakfast with Fresh Pressed Juices
- 10:00am – 12:00pm: Mind Body Relationship Intelligence group work
- 12:00pm – 1:00pm: Organic Gourmet Lunch
- 1:00pm – 3:00pm: Massage and Acupuncture
- 3:00pm – 4:00pm: IV Vitamin Therapy
- 4:00pm: Closing Ceremony and Reflections
- 5:00 pm: Departure
Note: The schedule is subject to changes or modifications based on specific needs and goals of participants, availability of practitioners, and other factors. Airfare and transfer to lodging not included in retreat pricing
Join us
May 13–17, 2026: Spring Healing Retreat
Oct 7–11, 2026: Fall Healing Retreat
Location: Door County Wisconsin, Cape Cod of the Midwest
Sign up to be notified about next retreat dates and details
STARTS JANUARY 2025
Relationship Medicine Teacher Training
Bring the power of Love Intelligence to your practice, daycare, school, home or community by becoming a certified Relationship Medicine Teacher.
Gifts
The Love Book and Love Card Set
The Love Book and Love Intelligence Card set is a nurturing way to connect with children and teach them about Love Intelligence once you know their Love Intelligence Code. This bundle contains a beautiful children’s board book & twenty-four 3 X 5 interactive Love Cards that teach the 12 Ways of Love.